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Joel - 9 Months

I now have a 9 month old and a nearly 2 1/2 year old and my god life has become stressful.  

With weeks of sleepless nights that I posted about a month ago - Sleep Regression, which has settled down but I can see that the little guy has more teeth coming so I'm expecting it to come back. My toddler has been really awful lately to his brother and just will not listen I get a lot of 'NO don't want to', No mummy' or I get laughed at when I'm telling him off. It's so frustrating.

Ollie - 2 years

I'm starting to feel I need to go to work and be me as I am not getting any time to myself at the moment I am longing for a full day just by myself - no kids and no husband just me to be me would be lovely.


I feel guilty saying it sometimes but doesn't everyone need alone time.

Smile

 

It has been a tough week this week as nothing seemed to go right and I've had a bad back that just isn't helping but when I look at these two little boys it makes me smile.

I just wanted to share :) 

How Do You Get A Man To Help With Kids?

For weeks on end I've been saying I'm so tired I can't cope with being woken up so much during the night and that I need a break from kids as I feel like I'm glued to them 24/7. Never ever do I get a response I would love to hear like: 

'I'll get up you need the sleep'

'You go and rest, have a bath I'll look after them for an hour or two'

'I'll change the nappy, don't worry' 

'You sit down I'll make breakfast/lunch/dinner and feed the kids'

'You go out you deserve a break'

Why oh why is it always mummy's work. To break the routine even just once a week and not have to get up after a restless night of constant wake ups to make everyone breakfast and not ask for help would be a dream. 

 To change a nappy and not beg them to do it as its been the forth dirty nappy you have done that day.

To bath kids without being prompted that they need a bath. 

For all those daddy's that do not help with babies and older kids mummy's need a break once in a while so please just help out its not asking for much really as they are yours too.

Had Enough

Feeling little bit.......glum. Thinking back to the past and mistakes made. Like in 2006 we pulled out of a two bed flat that recently I keep thinking about and wished we had have gone ahead with it as we may have been much better off now. 

2007 we bought the house we are in now which has been an utter nightmare ever since and can't get out of it. 

When we got the keys and I walked into the house for the first time I wanted to cry as it was left in such a state and just thought 'what have we done'. At that point we didn't know the half of what was to come. Noisy neighbours actually let's say inconsiderate noisy neighbours at silly hours in the morning. I don't think I've had a decent nights sleep since moving into the house. I just want the nightmare to end as the stress and lack of sleep is taking its toll. 

Also the town we live in is depressing as the majority of the families live off benefits and will probably never get off their butts to work, I can't stand lazy people and people that have no respect for others. I've always worked and now we struggle to pay for a house we hate being in and are surrounded by weed smoking, lazy morons who have probably never stepped out of the town. I may sound snobby but I don't want my kids to grow up here and mix with these people who have no ambition in life other than to get drunk, high and laid.

I WANT OUT....but how?

No equity, no savings :(